Tuesday, December 27, 2016

Merry Christmas

Merry Christmas Everybody! Hopefully it was good and that being able to celebrate the Savior's birth on the Sabbath day contributed to the spirit of the day. Seeing as it was the week leading up to Christmas not too much happened, most people are busy with family and vacations so nobody was really that available to meet with us. The weekend was super different as well. Obviously nobody wants to be harassed by a bunch of weird 19-20 year old guys in shirts and ties so we ended up just hanging out as missionaries. On Christmas Eve we started out the day by playing ultimate frisbee and soccer in the morning for a while as missionaries and then we just relaxed for a big chunk of the day. At night we went to dinner with some members of the ward and shared a big family Christmas Eve dinner and after dinner we went to another members home for a Christmas program. While there we read the account of Christ's birth in Luke chapter 2 and  had a little puppet show that went along with it. It was so great to be able to share the night with those families, it truly made it feel more like Christmas to be with families who were doing their usual Christmas traditions. On Christmas we had church early in the morning, it was a wonderful musical sacrament meeting. The choir sang some hymns, a couple of members of the ward talked about different aspects of Christmas and of the life of Christ, and the congregation joined in occasionally. After church we got to go home and relax for a little bit, as one should on a Christmas Sunday, and then we went to brunch at a member of the ward's home. After brunch we went to our ward mission leaders home to skype our families. It was so much fun to be able to talk to my parent, sibling, grandparents, and cousin. Its crazy to think that I only get to call home one more time on the mission now. After talking with family we went to dinner with the members who were feeding us. It was fun to be able to spend time with them and play some games and relax again.

I'm so grateful for the chances I've had to celebrate Christmas while in the service of Him whose birth we celebrate. Throughout the past month most of the people that we have talked to have said that the Christmases that they had on their missions have been their favorites, I don't think I can say quite the same thing but I can say that I will never forget either of them. There is something different about being focused on Christ and on helping others to focus on Him as well that makes a celebration of His birth seem more focused and real. The key now is to keep focused on Him all through the year and to continue to help others do the same. Its crazy to think that I only have 6 months left, I remember last Christmas when I hit 6 months feeling as though it would never end but now it seems like my mission is just about done and there is still lots to do. I look forward to the next 6 months and I know that as I keep myself committed and focused I will be able to see miracles and blessings galore. I love this place and I love the people here.
Love
Elder Cheever

Monday, December 19, 2016

A lot of service

Not too much happened this week. We had a lot of service between helping with FAM, helping set up for the ward Christmas party, helping a potential investigator move, helping some members in the other ward move, and helping set up somebody's wedding reception. We are excited for Christmas this weekend, this is definitely one of the best times of the year. I hope y'all can remember the Savior this weekend as you celebrate His birth!
Love
Elder Cheever

Monday, December 12, 2016

Jack told his mom that wants to be baptized

This week was pretty good. We are still working hard to find new people to teach and progress towards baptism and we are slowly getting closer.
On Tuesday we helped out at FAM and then we had the opportunity to have dinner with a nonmember family who lives in our area. Their son was diagnosed with cancer last year and because they have some friends who are members of the church he received a priesthood blessing that ended up helping him be cancer free in a very short period of time so they wanted to be able to pay forward the kindness and love by feeding us. It was cool to be able to get to know them and share more with them about what we do. Before we left we showed them the "Light the World" video and talked about the initiative based around serving others and following Christ's example in doing so. After we left we received a text from Mrs. Yorba thanking us for coming over and for sharing the video, she explained that their older son thinks that he is an atheist and that she was super grateful to watch him interact with us and to learn from us and to have him appreciate the video and to learn a little bit more. It was so cool to see how something little like that made a mothers day and helped out that family. We hope to be able to interact with them more and hopefully begin teaching them, we will see how that plan goes.

On Wednesday we were able to call Jack and have a lesson with him over the phone. For having gone through a bone marrow transplant and everything that goes along with that he is doing quite well. He sounded pretty tired and worn out, but that's to be expected. He got out of the hospital on Saturday and he is now staying in some hospital housing for about another week so that the doctors can make sure everything is okay before he comes back here to Talega. In addition to the news that he is healthy and doing well he has also told his mom that when he is recovered and able he wants to be baptized! Lots of good things happening for that boy and his family.

I'm so grateful to be here for another Christmas. There is something great about focusing on teaching others about Christ at this time of year, even if the people we talk to most are the members of the ward, being able to help them focus on Christ and spread that to others is just as important because they will still be here for a long time and will be able to reach more people than just the missionaries can. These people are good and I need to be with them!
Love
Elder Cheever



Monday, November 21, 2016

The Atonement helps you feel new again

We had a pretty good week over here. On Tuesday we were able to meet with the Fales, our Jewish investigator family. Jill (the wife) is an amazingly nice woman who is always excited to ask us questions and learn more. We Jill about different apostles in the New Testament and then we learned about Bar Mitzvahs from her. It was a cool exchange of information. 

On Wednesday I was able to interview Gary, a man who got baptized on Saturday in the Cristianitos ward It was a good chance to get to know him and to help him out as he prepared for baptism. We helped him do some service before the interview and he gave us a bunch of souvenirs from Hawaii and Alohas (Hawaiian shirts).  And then on Thursday I was able to interview Grace, a 17 year old girl also being baptized in that ward. Grace was the friend of one of the girls in that ward and started going to church after watching a little bit of General Conference with the family of her friend, so its super simple to invite friends to learn more, and who knows they might love it like Grace did. They both are some amazingly prepared people who were very excited for their baptisms so it was wonderful to be able to see those happen on Saturday. I learned a lot in preparing for the interviews as well as when I met with them.

I had a cool experience this morning that can relate to the ordinance of baptism and the Atonement. Sometimes in the mornings out here we get together as the elders in the zone and play frisbee or feetball (a combination of football and soccer.) It rained for a good portion of the day yesterday and all through the night so we planned to play some feetball this morning knowing that the field we go to would be super wet and muddy (obviously the best time to play soccer.) It was a ton of fun slipping and sliding around in the mud and getting rained on while we played. Of course the one downside to this activity is the fact that you get pretty muddy and nasty. After showering and changing into clean clothes warm and clean and good again. When I got out of the shower, my companion and our roommates and I were joking about how I felt like a new man and then we realized that that's exactly how the Atonement coupled with baptism and the Sacrament works. You go through life having a good old time but you end up making wrong choices that cause you to be soaking wet, cold, and covered in mud (which is pretty uncomfortable after a while) but then the Atonement acts as a shower, warming you up, cleaning you off, and helping you feel refreshed and new again. Its so amazing that we have the amazing gift of the Atonement to help us overcome the mistakes we make and to help us be able to feel the warmth of our Heavenly Father's love.

On Friday we had zone 24's. The whole zone goes on exchanges for the day and there is a chance to go with any of the elders in the zone instead of just exchanges within the district. I was able to go to the Capistrano area with Elder Medina, one of our zone leaders. Elder Gunn stayed in our area with Elder Ferguson, our other zone leader. We laughed about it because it probably seemed like we are the troubled companionship but really we went with them because the zone leaders are supposed to do exchanges with all the district leaders and they just hadn't done it with me yet.  It was fun to go out and to do some Filipino work with him, it felt like I was back doing Japanese work with Summers, just having to smile and nod because I had no idea what was going on. It ended up being a super good day and I learned a lot about how to be a good leader and had a lot of fun along the way.

Yesterday we had church, of course, and then after church we helped make bags with thanksgiving food that will be delivered to Marine families at some of the bases nearby. It was cool to be a part of it and to help people who help us so much, that and after church we got to change into comfy regular clothes and relax for a little bit before we had to go to the service, it felt like a "normal" Sunday at home.

I love it here in Talega. The people are so nice and the members truly appreciate what we do and want to help us as much as they can. We have some good stuff happening and Elder Gunn and I are confident that we will begin seeing miracles pretty soon as we stay diligent and focused on our purpose. I know this church is true and that Jesus Christ leads it through our Prophet, Thomas S. Monson. I love being a called and chosen representative of Christ and I love helping our Heavenly Father's children.
Love
Elder Cheever





Monday, November 14, 2016

Elder Hamula visit

We had an awesome visit from Elder James J. Hamula of the Seventy this week. He talked with us a lot about the importance of following Christ and staying on the straight and narrow path and then he answered questions that people had. The Spirit in the meeting was super strong and I was able to have a lot of personal questions answered based on what he talked about and answers to others questions.

Other than that we really just had a lot of service this week helping out at FAM, the food bank place that we help out at every week. And we helped out at a concession stand at a high school football game and I came to the realization that I'm way older than high school kids now. 

There's not much else to talk about from this week, all our people were busy with other things so we couldn't meet with them but we have some awesome potential investigators that we are going to begin trying to work with so hopefully we can see stuff there. 

I know that this church is true, I know that God really is our Father in Heaven and that He loves us and watches over us in all things. I know that He sent His son, Jesus Christ to be our Savior and Redeemer and that through His Atonement we get through anything in this life and we can return to live with our Father in Heaven again. 

Monday, November 7, 2016

Not much

Not very much happened this week. We were able to have a lesson over the phone with Jack and his mom. He is doing super well and sounds positive still. The actual bone marrow transplant part of his operation starts tomorrow so if y'all can keep him in your prayers that would be awesome.
We got to tour the headquarters of Stance this week as well. For those of you who don't know what that is, its a company that makes high quality socks that has gotten super popular in the last few years. A lot of the founders and executives are members so we have inside people to get us in there.
That's about it. I love this area a ton and the members here are super awesome and loving.
Love
Elder Cheever

Monday, October 31, 2016

Full of excitement and disappointment

We had a pretty good week over here in Talega, full of excitement and disappointment but still a good week.

On Monday two of the young men who the best friends of our investigator Jack talked with him about baptism and committed him to pray to know when he should get baptized and then on Wednesday they told us that he had a decided he wanted to do it before his bone marrow transplant that is happening tomorrow. We got super excited about that and started to try and figure out how we would go about doing all of it. On Thursday when we had our lesson with Jack our plan was to discuss his baptism and figure out exactly what day to do it on and to figure out all of the minutia of it; this is where the disappointment comes in. We told him that we had heard that he wanted to get baptized to which he laughed hesitantly and then said that he had done some more thinking about it and he decided that he isn't ready for it yet for a lot of things. We continued on with the lesson and went over the commandments we were going to teach him anyways and I think in a small way we were able to address some of his concerns but for now we will have to wait until his treatment is over, which will be another couple of months. But thanks to technology we are going to have lessons with his friends and him over skype/facetime since he will be in a hospital that's an hour and a half away from here. 

That was the biggest thing that happened this week. Besides that we just had a lot of service. We helped out at FAM again and then we helped to take down a haunted house from a fall festival in the area and then set up and work at a fall festival all day on Saturday. As tiring as service is its one of my favorite things to do. There is just something fulfilling about helping others.

On Saturday night we also had the chance to go up to Santa Ana for a little while to meet up with one of my former companions, Jordan Dallin. He was in the MTC with me and he ended up going home in January. He got married on the 28th and was in the mission before heading out for his honeymoon on a cruise leaving from Long Beach. It was a ton of fun to catch up with him and to meet his wife. 

One of my very favorite things about the mission is the relationships that I have built. I have made friendships with other missionaries, with members, and investigators that I hope will last for a long time and I have gotten to know people who I will never forget. I truly do love all of Father's children no matter where they live or who they are. The people here are so good and I very much need to be with them!
Love
Elder Cheever

Monday, October 24, 2016

This is an amazing area

This week has been great. This ward is super welcoming and it is an amazing area. Elder Gunn is a great companion and we get along super well and we feel really good about this transfer and the miracles that we can see. 

We were able to meet with one of our investigators named Jack. He is a high school aged boy who got cancer a little while ago but who is cancer free for now. He has been going to church for the past three years and is working on seminary home study right now. He is an awesome young man and he has a strong testimony of the truthfulness of this gospel. Elder Gunn and I both feel really strongly that he is ready to be baptized and we talked with his two best friends about it so they are going over today to set a baptism date with him. The biggest problem though is that he goes in for a bone marrow transplant in the beginning of November and once the happens we wont be able to visit him for about 3 months so we are hoping that it all works out and that he can be baptized this weekend or early next week. We know that if its what Heavenly Father wants it will happen. Hopefully y'all can keep him and his family in your prayers.

On Saturday we did a lot of service at a food bank sort of place that was pretty nasty. They have a rat problem so we were helping them to clean out the entire warehouse so they could deep clean it. We actually had a pretty good time chasing rats as we moved stuff around but we felt pretty gross towards the end of it. Later that day Elder Gunn and I went by a potential investigator family's home. They are a super awesome Jewish family that loves the church so Elder Gunn has talked with them previously about various things. We ended up having an hour and a half long lesson that started off with us teaching them about prayer and the way we pray and then we talked for the rest of the time about Christ and His Atonement and why various parts of it are necessary and how they help us in the life and then we said a prayer with them in behalf of their nephew going through a hard time. When we left we were able to give them a copy of the Book of Mormon and explain to them what it is exactly. They were happy to learn more and to get the Book of Mormon  and told us to come back soon.
We ran out of things to do at night and nobody was available because it was homecoming for the local high school so we ended up walking around for a little bit and go to a part of our area that has lots of wilderness in it and we heard coyotes howling which was a little eerie and but we kept going that way and then they howled a lot closer and we both had a strong feeling that we needed to get out of there so we took off running the way we came and probably ran for a quarter mile in our missionary clothes with our bags before we decided that we should be safe. And then a little later we had our car parked using up a couple of spots at a park so that we wouldn't have to back up and I looked at it from across the park where we were walking and it looked like the headlights were on so we went back to check it out and discovered a cop getting ready to write us a ticket. We got there just in time to explain our laziness and to apologize to him so that we could get out of the ticket. That day made me grateful for the Spirit and the fact that even when we are doing dumb stuff we can still receive help and guidance

On Sunday we had church as usual and after church we went to visit a less active member named Jim. As soon as we got to his house it started pouring rain so we managed to get in. His ex wife was there as well but he referred to her as his wife so it must not be too bad of a situation. We were able to have a super good lesson with them about obedience to God's commandments and afterwards his wife suggested that they need to have us over to dinner sometime to be able to teach their kids, who aren't members of the church so we are hoping that that works out and that we can teach them.

There is a lot going on here and I'm excited for it. I know that through our hard work and dedication we can see miracles here and in the lives of those we are working with as they begin to accept the restored gospel of Jesus Christ. There are lots of good people here and I need to be with them!
Love
Elder Cheever

Monday, October 17, 2016

I am leaving the Laguna Hills 3rd ward

Not too much really happened this week. I was pretty sure that I would get told I'm leaving Saturday so I was mostly trying to keep working hard to finish out the week. Transfer calls came on Saturday and as expected I was told I am leaving the Laguna Hills 3rd ward. I will be going back to the San Clemente Stake and I will be in the Liberty Park ward , my companion will be Elder Gunn. He has been out a little less than me and we served around each other last year when I was in Newport so we already know one another. I'm excited to go there and to meet the people and follow the Spirit to help Heavenly Fathers children up there. I will miss my companions and many of the people here in this ward, they have been awesome and have loved me and been the strength and help I have needed over the last 6 months and for that I am very grateful.

Like I said not too much happened this week that was very exciting. Hopefully there will be more to report on next week after transfers, I know those people in San Clemente are good and I need to be with them.
Love,
Elder Cheever

Tuesday, October 11, 2016

We had to move yesterday

We had to move yesterday so preparing for that took up the last few days of the week and the rest of the week was pretty uneventful. 

On Tuesday I had the chance to go on exchanges in the Marina Hills ward with Elders Capasso and Rosenow. It was a super good day. We started off the day by going to the funeral of their investigators mother. It was at the big Catholic Basillica in San Juan Capistrano and it was probably one of the more interesting things I have ever done. It was basically a Catholic mass so us Mormon missionaries were super confused. I'm sure the Priest/Pastor (whatever you call them) was super confused when he walked out and saw us sitting there. We came to really understand how great of a blessing knowing about the Plan of Salvation is and about how lucky we are to have the priesthood authority restored to the earth. Their investigator really appreciated our being there though so that's what was most important. The rest of the day went pretty well. We were able to meet with one of the less active men they are working with and had a good lesson with him about faith. It was nice to work in another area, for only the second time since I came here in May, and I had a good time with those other elders.

On Wednesday we had district meeting and then after district meeting we were able to meet with Brother Moye and we had a good lesson with him talking about General Conference and especially President Nelson's talk about finding joy in every circumstance. 

Thursday and Friday we ended up spending a lot of time packing up all of our stuff in the apartment so that we could be ready to move so not too much else happened on those days. It was pretty sad to take everything down from around the apartment. I have lived there for a long time and I had pretty well made it my home.

On Saturday we spent the entire day doing service. In the morning we helped with a move for some members who live in our apartment complex and then after lunch we spent the entire rest of the day helping with the stake hoedown. It was a super good activity and a lot of the members had friends and neighbors there with them. It was a really good opportunity for the people of the community to see members of the church as normal and fun people in a super inviting atmosphere.\

Moving yesterday was weird. Our new apartment is nicer but it was strange to be alone at night, our old roommates also got a new apartment. It was pretty sad to not have them there since I have been living with one of them since May and the other since June. And then I got sick at night because I ate syrup that was supposed to be refrigerated but wasn't. Who knew that syrup could go bad?

That's about it for the week. The people here are good and I need to be with them!
Love
Elder Cheever

Monday, October 3, 2016

We found three people who told us we could come back

Not too much happened here this week so this one will be fairly short. We spent just about every day the same way, studies in the morning, lunch, trying to visit less actives, then tracting for about an hour and a half until dinner and then tract until it gets dark then try and visit a couple of more people. 

On Tuesday when we went tracting I had Elder West pick the street that we went to and when we started knocking we found three people who told us we could come back and share more, one of whom I knew from helping with the high school's grad night back in June, and then the next day we went to knock on the doors on the second floor and found one more lady who said we could come back. 

On Thursday I had my exchange with the zone leaders, Elder Boggess and Elder Forthman. I've known Elder Boggess since we were freshman in high school and I met Elder Forthman at BYU a couple of times and he was in my MTC district and they have been companions for almost 4 transfers now so all three of us are good friends and get along well so it was a really good day. We got a lot done and even managed to finally get in with a less active man who we have been trying to work with.

General Conference this weekend was great, there were lots of good talks that gave me good answers to questions I have had. Being able to hear President Monson was such a privilege. As he spoke I could feel the Spirit powerfully confirming to me that he truly is the Prophet.

I know that the Book of Mormon is true, that it clearly outlines for us our Heavenly Fathers glorious plan for our happiness and salvation and that through it we can truly come to know our Savior Jesus Christ. I know that Joseph Smith was a prophet called to bring Christ's church back to the earth in its fullness and that today President Monson is God's mouthpiece on the earth. Most importantly I know that Jesus Christ is my Savior and Redeemer and that He died for every one of us. His love is perfect and His Atonement makes up for all that is unfair in the world and it can help us to overcome our own mistakes. I know that He lives and that our Heavenly Father loves all of His children. I love sharing this gospel, even though its hard and I'm tired I'm happy because there is no better way to be spending my time than serving my Father in Heaven and my older brother Jesus Christ.
Love
Elder Cheever

Monday, September 26, 2016

Doing a lot of service

We had a relatively uneventful week. I had a constant headache from Tuesday until Sunday so that kind of took my happiness out of everything but its gone now which is good.

Being able to go to the temple on Tuesday was a huge blessing, as always and I got some needed direction and spiritual support. 

On Wednesday we had our district meeting, it went pretty well. Its strange trying to adjust to a new district and also have my co district leader be new to the district as well. After district meeting President requested that my companions and I go to Irvine to have interviews with him. It was pretty interesting to hear the questions he had for me and then to hear the things that he talked about with my companions as they shared how their meetings with him went. We weren't in trouble or anything he just had questions about stuff in our apartment that he deemed as distractions and he wanted to know what kind of environment it was as we studied and prepared. After our dinner we met with Bishop Flora and he went over a lot of basic tips and advice for how we can be more presentable and better missionaries. It was a lot of help for me and it gave me the chance to talk with him individually and get some guidance as how to help my companions.

On Thursday we ended up doing a lot of service. We helped an elderly lady in the ward unpack and move around some stuff in her home and then at night we got the chance to volunteer at the stake blood drive which was pretty cool. We also had dinner with Sister Noss, the less active woman who we gave a blessing and ate with about a month ago. Once again she had nonmember friends there and we had another chance to talk with them about our mission and what we do and then we got Sister Noss to commit to invite them and her friend Maria from last time to come to the monthly music devotional and temple walk so that was super awesome.

On Saturday we ended up being able to meet up with the young man named Kyle who we have taught a little bit and follow up with his reading of the Book of Mormon and it turns out that he is in Alma 37 which is impressive for a 12 year old kid. We ended up reading Alma 32 with him and talking about faith and how important it is to plant the seed of faith and to continually water it and be nourishing so that it can grow and bring us the fruit that you want it to. 

On Sunday during Sacrament meeting I had a really awesome realization. The deacons accidentally skipped over our row when they were passing the bread for the sacrament around so we didn't get the chance to take it until after the meeting was over. I hadn't realized that we got skipped until they were all lining up again because I had been praying as they passed it. While we waited for the water to come around I felt a little empty and I realized how much taking the Sacrament has come to mean to me since I have come to understand its importance throughout my mission. The whole rest of the meeting I felt off until I was able to take the bread. It truly showed me the value of that ordinance and the meaning it should have in each of our lives. I don't remember what general authority said it but there is a quote that goes along the lines of "If we truly understood the importance of the Sacrament there would be not mountain too high or ocean too deep to prevent us from being in church to partake of it" (this is a very rough paraphrase, so don't try to quote me on it.)

That's about it from over here. We continue to work hard and have fun as we try to find people to teach. Our new motto is its fun to find from 6 to 9, but really only from 6 to 7 because that's when it gets dark and people don't like when we knock on their doors after dark. Oh well, even the angry ones are good and we need to be with them.
Love
Elder Cheever

Monday, September 19, 2016

Sep 19 - We are hoping that things start picking

This week was pretty slow so there isn't too much to report on from this week so this email may be a shorter one.

On Tuesday we met with Raul. We talked about the Apostasy and how there really was a need for the priesthood to be restored and then we tied that in to the Sacrament and how important church is. Once again he told us he would be there and then once again he bailed at the last second for some other activity.

On Wednesday we went on splits with the priests for mutual. It was a lot of fun, especially since the young man that I went with is just about the person as Ryan Connor. I think for the first time in my mission I'm beginning to realize the impact that missionaries can have on members, especially the young men. Drage, the one that I went with, is going to be starting his papers soon and to be able to talk with him about missionary work and what its like to be a missionary was a really neat experience and it was really amazing to be able to remember doing the same thing with some of the elders back at home and to now be the one giving the advice and telling stories instead of being the young man preparing for a mission.

Saturday was pretty rough day for all of us but I think it took a lot more out of my companions than it did out of me. On Friday night we had a cool miracle, we were about to go into our apartment after finishing the night walking around our complex and a guy pulled up next to us and asked if we were the Mormons. I thought we were going to be yelled at for "soliciting, but he ended up telling us that his wife is a less active member who wants to return to church and that he is a nonmember but that he wants to go to the ARP meetings to over come alcoholism so now we are going to start working with them. We planned to visit them on Saturday along with a few other potential investigators and less active members. Unfortunately every single appointment we had fell through and then every time we tried to visit other people who we had as back ups they weren't available either. By the end of the night we were exhausted and pretty bummed out. However I think it was a good lesson for Elders West and Hohmann to see that planning is super important because if we hadn't made those plans I think the day would have been even worse. 

That's about it for this week I believe. We are hoping that things start picking up more. I talked with Elder Boggess after zone training meeting and we both feel like Laguna Hills is a very promising area and that before too long it will become a very fruitful area, its just a matter of holding on and continuing to work hard. There are good people here that I need to be with!
Love
Elder Cheever

Monday, September 12, 2016

Training Elder West

For having very few things happen this week, this email is surprisingly long. 

We were able to meet and pick up our new companion this week. His name is Elder West, he is from Fargo, North Dakota; he wrestled and got 3rd in states, played football, and sang choir. He is super awesome and he is a solid missionary already. 

Elder West's first day here went quite well. We were busy all day long and had lots to do and got to teach a few good lessons. Within his first 24 hours he had the chance to help in a priesthood blessing and to bless an apartment so that was pretty cool for him and a good growing experience Its pretty fun to hear Elder Hohmann talk about "mission life" and all the stuff he has learned in his long 7 weeks here. I'm still just enjoying the ride and trying to be the best example to them that I can be and trying to help them become the missionaries that our Father in Heaven knows they can be.

We had a pretty good lesson with Raul but he still didn't come to church. I think this week we are just going to be really bold with him and ask him what is keeping him from coming and ask if he ever plans on coming to church. But it was a good opportunity for Elder West to teach an investigator. He is already a super solid teacher and knows a good amount about the gospel.

On Thursday when we went to the Bahai devotional for a less active young man in the ward we got a new potential investigator named Javier. He was there with Jerry, the less active young man. Javier is 14 and trying to seek truth about religion and God so he is looking at a lot of faiths. We talked to him about our church and about the Book of Mormon, I actually gave him one a few months ago, and he had many questions similar to Joseph Smith prior to his experiencing the first vision so we shared that with him and answered some of his questions. We even got Jerry to testify of prayer and answers to prayers to him so that was cool. Javier was super interested in learning more because he really like what we shared. I love to see young people sincerely seeking to know their Father in Heaven, when they except the gospel, it opens up a whole new world of possibilities for them and can really change the chances that generations to come will have.

The other pretty crazy event/miracle happened yesterday. We got a call from a random phone number and it ended up being a ysa aged girl who had gotten drunk to numb the pain and sadness of her brother dying in the towers on 9/11 and she somehow had our number and for whatever reason the people that she felt like she needed to call were the missionaries. She is a nonmember who learned just about everything that she would need to know to be baptized and confirmed and she has even read the Book of Mormon in its entirety and could quote passages like Alma 7:11-12 and Alma 36:19-21 while drunk. Through out the course of the conversation she asked if she could be baptized if she doesn't drink anymore and requested that I baptize her. So we are going to pass her off to the YSA sisters so they can teach her and so she can get baptized. I think the coolest thing in the whole experience was seeing the power of prayer and scripture in action, she was sobbing and distraught and after I had her say a prayer on the phone she was able to breathe and think more clearly and to talk about the gospel and how much she loves it. Heavenly Father truly loves his children regardless of the mistakes they make and even when they are in the midst of sin and doing things that separate them from Him he still gives them the spiritual nudges that they need to find help. I also learned that talking on the phone with a drunk person for 5 hours is exhausting.

Through all of these experiences this week my testimony of the divinity of our nature as children of a loving Heavenly Father was hugely strengthened. Throughout my mission I have found great comfort and strength in that knowledge and I have truly come to see God as my Father in a greater sense than I ever did before. On Saturday I read an article in an ensign from 2008 called "Our God Truly is God" by Elder Douglas L. Callister of the Seventy, and one point he talked about the importance of knowing we are children of God and the importance of teaching that, here is a quote from the article (sorry that this is going to be another one of my long emails but I feel that this is important to share today)

"The same God who brings such order to the universe and inspires the prophets designed the time, place, and circumstances of your birth. Said the Lord to the Prophet Joseph, 'Thy days are known, and thy years shall not be numbered less' (D&C 122:9). God’s love for you and awareness of your circumstances are of equal measure. Our relationship with Him is not that of Creator and created thing. It is of personal Father and child.

I had the privilege of being present when President Gordon B. Hinckley was interviewed by editors of the Los Angeles Times. An editor inquired about the rapid growth of the Church. President Hinckley chose to respond by emphasizing the miraculous transformation in the life of each individual who joins the Church. He spoke of a girl in Australia who was employed serving ice cream. She seemed inattentive to the message of the missionaries until one of them said, 'Do you know that you are a child of God?' She replied, 'Nobody has ever said that to me before. I had no idea that I might be a child of God.' Thereafter she went to her room, got down on her knees, and inquired: 'Are you there? Am I your child? Please let me know.' Then she said, 'There came into me a surge of feeling that brought me the conviction that was the case.' She joined the Church.

Two weeks later she was asked to give a talk in a Church meeting. Her first impulse was to run from it. Then she thought, 'If I am a child of God, I can do anything.' With this enlarged vision of who she was, she became a stalwart member of the Church.

Our entire perspective of ourselves, our worth, and what we can make of our lives is altered for good when we come to understand that we are God’s children and that we can become like Him."

I love this. Its truly humbling and amazing to see how important and impactful it can be to know the simple truth of our divine heritage. Then yesterday when I was talking with Chloe, the girl who called us and wants to be baptized, she started reading from a book written by a pastor somewhere and that talked about how too often when people try to teach about the gospel they start at Genesis chapter 3 and begin with the fact that we sinners and that we need a Savior, which is true, but that then the idea that we are evil and doomed for evil creeps in and people get stuck on that belief. The pastor said that we need to teach from the beginning, with Genesis chapter 1 and teach that we are children of God and that He loves us and knows us (I think that's just another point in the Church's favor seeing as the very first point we are told to teach is that God is our loving Heavenly Father). She then talked about how no matter what status we may have or what title we use to identify ourselves the one that is most important for us to remember and use is the fact that we are children of God and that as we no that nothing can stand in our way. I know that everybody here on the earth truly are Heavenly Father's children and I know that He knows each and every one of us and will help us through the trials that may arise in this lifetime. I know that I'm a child of God and I'm grateful for the chance to serve as one of His chosen missionaries and to help invite the people of Laguna Hills to come to know Him better. I love this gospel and I know that this is Christ's church here on the earth today and that Jesus Christ truly is our Savior and I know that there are good people here in this area that I need to be with and help and I say this in the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.
Love
Elder Cheever

Tuesday, September 6, 2016

A couple of cool miracles

Our last week was basically the same as usual, we had a couple of cool miracles that pumped us up but then some wild news. As it is a new transfer with new missionaries coming in fresh from the MTC, Elder Hohmann and I got called to train one of them! For about 3 hours after we got called I was super stressed and freaked out. Training is a huge responsibility and to have two new missionaries at once is a lot. Since then I have been trying my best to keep focused and rely on the Atonement for the strength I need and to help me be less worried and stressed and scared. I'm sure that it will all work out and that Heavenly Father has a plan in all of it, I'm just trying to roll with it and keep on moving, even if that requires a little bit of asking Him why its happening this way. Luckily Elder Hohmann is excited and feels ready for it.

On Tuesday we didn't really have much to do in the evening, not even a dinner, besides our lesson with Raul but even that was being sketchy because we couldn't get anybody to join us for it. While we were tracting we got a phone call from the sisters in our district (they aren't in our ward) telling us that they weren't doing anything. We were confused as to why they called us and then like 5 minutes later a less active lady named Sister Noss called us asking for a blessing. We tried to find other missionaries to join us since she was going to be the only one home. Everybody we called was at dinners or other appointments and couldn't help and then we remembered that the sisters weren't doing anything and that they didn't have a dinner either so we called them and they were able to help out. The blessing went well and then she offered to feed us dinner which worked out perfectly. As soon as we started to cook dinner Raul texted us and ended up cancelling which was good because we ended up being there for a long time. While we were making the dinner one of her nonmember friends came by and ended up eating with us and we were able to tell her more about what we do as missionaries and to answer questions that she had. Hopefully this experience was good for the less active woman and for her friend and we can see something cool come from it.

That's honestly about all it that happened this week. It seems that despite our best efforts it is staying slow here. But I'm going to keep going out and doing what I need to and keep controlling what I can control and have faith that there are miracles in store for us or the ward and the area.

Next week I will send pictures and the name of our new companion seeing as we don't find out who he is until tonight.

These people are good and I need to be with them.
Love
Elder Cheever

Monday, August 29, 2016

Seeing the fruits of my work in California is great

We actually ended up having a pretty good week over here in Laguna Hills. Things went a little better than they have and I felt like we had more work to do that was actually beneficial to the area. A lot of days it feels like the stuff we do just doesn't make a difference even though in some small way it does. I'm just trying to keep focused on moving forward and having the faith that as we keep being obedient and working hard, we will see miracles.

On Tuesday we had a lesson with Raul. It was okay but I could tell that we hadn't prepared well enough for it so we weren't able to explain the principles from the Plan of Salvation that we wanted to in quite the way that we had hoped.

On Wednesday we spent most of the day in Leisure World, the senior community in our area, trying to visit less active members that we didn't know anything about. We managed to find one of them but they weren't available to meet right then. Even finding them was a nice change to knocking on silent doors though. We had finished trying to visit the first few that we hoped to and we had a little bit of time left before we wanted to go and visit one of the less active members that we have already been working with so I wanted to find one more person to try and when I looked at the ward the first name that I noticed was one of the couples there in in Leisure world so we went to go find their apartment and see if they were home. When we parked the car I saw a storage unit that had boxes and other stuff outside of it so I got out of the car and asked the man by it if they were loading it or unloading it and then offered to help them out (not that that really mattered which they were doing, I would have offered to help either way). At first the man tried to say no because we were in our white shirts and ties but I wore him down to let us help because I convinced him that I didn't really care if my clothes got messed up. Him and another man were helping the resident move stuff from the storage unit so that he could prepare to move to Cedar City and then one of the guys helping, his name was Bob, told us all about his sister who is a member, its funny how many people have connections to the church in some way. They were super appreciative of our help and to show it Bob has offered to take us to dinner so hopefully we can turn this into a teaching opportunity whether for ourselves or another set of missionaries.

On Thursday we had a big zone conference where we found out the new counselors in the mission presidency. It was weird to look up on the stand and see a whole new group of leaders. At night we went to the Bahai devotional that I used to go to last year, it was funny to see how different it was to Elder Hohmann, I think I probably looked as confused as he did last year when I first went to it. I shared part of Nephi's psalm in 2 Nephi chapter 4. It was neat to see that it went along with the kind of prayers they were sharing but that as I read I could feel a difference in the Spirit that was there. The Book of Mormon really is a powerful book.

On Friday we attended our ward's talent show. We got roped into doing a skit which actually ended up being a lot of fun. I think the best thing though is it gave them all a chance to see that missionaries are fun and normal and it built a lot of trust for us so hopefully we will see some miracles happen from that.

On Saturday we picked up a couple of new investigators. We spend a lot of time in the poorer neighborhoods in our area and I have talked with a lot of the kids there and a couple of weeks ago the spanish elders gave us a referral for one of them who is actually interested in learning more. We have tried to meet with him a couple of times before but he was always busy until Saturday when we saw him and asked when he wanted to meet up and he told us to meet him and his friends at the park that evening. This was the second time that I have had the chance to teach the Restoration to a new investigator since I have been in the area and it was Elder Hohmann's first time teaching it to somebody who hasn't already heard it before so it was a pretty big deal to him. The lesson went well and both Kyle and Jacob said that they would be willing to be baptized when they come to know its true. Our hope now is that as we continue meeting with them that we can also meet with their families as well so that they can experience the blessings that the gospel has in store for our families.

Last night I got to hang out with Cam and the elders in the YSA ward. He is doing super good and  while we were there one of is best friends, who isn't a member, was with us and him and the missionaries invited the friend to their family home evening tonight. Seeing somebody I taught who got baptized truly living the gospel and sharing it with his friends was pretty amazing and made the whole week worth it. Seeing the fruits of my work here over the last year here in California is great. 

That's about it for this week, I hope everything goes well for y'all and you find opportunities to come closer to Jesus Christ
Love
Elder Cheever
 
 

Monday, August 22, 2016

Being a missionary is...

This week was pretty rough. We worked really hard on Tuesday for Elder Butler's last day so that we could send him off strong. We made plans to just tract one really long street in our area for most of the day because we had nothing set and as we did that things fell into place and we ended up having a really good lesson with Raul, helping a nonmember with some service from a member referral, and had dinner with a less active in the ward so it ended up being a great day.

The lesson with Raul couldn't have come at a better time and I don't think it could have gone any better (except maybe if he told us he knew the Book of Mormon was true and that he would be at church the next three weeks so he could get baptized as soon as possible.) We went into it planning teaching the Plan of Salvation and addressing a couple of his concerns but when we were talking with him he talked about how it keeps getting harder and harder to not have a job. That morning as I studied I prayed that something I read would be able to help somebody throughout the day and then I dug into the Book of Ether. At the beginning of the lesson I felt prompted to share a thought about when the Jaredites were in their barges crossing the ocean to the promised land. Moroni writes that they were carried across by furious winds and mighty tempests until they reached the promised land and based on an Ensign article I read one time I had a sticky note in my scriptures that mentioned that in life we go through fierce winds and storms to guide us to all that our Heavenly Father has promised us. After sharing that with Raul I also talked about the cycle that occurs in Ether of the people following the commandments, becoming prosperous and happy and then falling into wickedness and I testified to Raul that if he keeps the commandments and the commitments that we leave with him that things will come together in his life. It touched him a lot and then we asked how his reading was going and he said that he had actually read in the Book of Mormon on his own which was amazing. We talked a little about that and then I asked how things were going quitting smoking and he said he hadn't smoked for a couple of days because he ran out of cigarettes and doesn't have much money left. Then Elder Butler asked when he read in the Book of Mormon and he told us it was a couple of days ago and he realized that by reading it probably helped him to not want to smoke or to have withdrawals which was a huge step for him to realize. When he prayed before he left he earnestly asked to know if the book and the church are true so that he can know and follow Christ better and so that he can be baptized in October. It was a great last investigator lesson for Elder Butler.

The rest of the week went by really slowly and was pretty difficult. I've been just tired of this area and its been hard to see why I'm here and I feel pretty useless. On Thursday night I was really just done and I felt super depressed so I asked Elder Boggess if they could come over and give me a blessing. Its such a blessing to have a good friend like him nearby who knows me and is my friend and who has been in this situation too, to give me a blessing. It was really powerful and he mentioned the fact that I'm making an impact here in all of the seeds that I'm planting and specifically mentioned some people in this ward that I have been trying to work with. The next day nothing went as planned and I was tired by the end of the night again and after attempting to visit a potential investigator I got really depressed so I said a quick prayer asking why I'm even here if nothing is happening and immediately into my head came this song called "The Harvester" that we listen to but the next thought was that it didn't apply to me, that I'm here to be a sower and to plant all the seeds that need to be planted and that then somebody else will be brought into be the harvester of the crops that I have prepared. It was kind of hard to get that answer but I realized that planting the seeds is just as important as harvesting because without a sower there would be nothing to be reaped. I began to think of the over 750people that I have contacted in the last 6 weeks and the probably 130ish copies of the Book of Mormon that I have given out and I realized that thats a lot of seeds to plant and a lot of chances for people to accept the gospel at some point. I know now that I need to just look at everything I do as planting seeds and that even if nothing comes from it while I'm here that if I can say I've done that it means I've done my job. 

Being a missionary is hard and sad and tiring, but at the same time its happy, and fun, and the best thing ever. Its crazy how all those things can be compounded into one and how you can go through all of them every single day and keep on going for two years, its definitely only possible with Heavenly Father's help. I know that if I was alone in this and it wasn't true and good that I'd have peaced out of here a long time ago. But I'm not alone so I keep on going each day hoping that things will work out in the end. I know that there are people here waiting to hear about the restored gospel and I know that what I share can help them. 
Love
Elder Cheever

Monday, August 15, 2016

Goodbye to Elders Greenberg and Butler

Its been another week here and just about the same old stuff to report. We talked to tons of people again and still managed to find only a few who were remotely interested so we shall see what happens when we follow up with them. 

On Wednesday we got to go to President's house for a dinner for the missionaries going home. It was so awesome to hear the testimonies of those who are leaving and to hear what others have learned from them. It was crazy to realize that Elder Greenberg is going home as well as Elder Butler. I have really come to love those two guys and will miss them a lot once they leave.

On Saturday we got to attend the baptism of 4 siblings in Elder Butler's last ward. They got special permission for the oldest to be baptized, confirmed, and then ordained to be a priest so that he could baptize his siblings. The Spirit that could be felt there was so strong and it was such a great opportunity for that family, especially the father who has previously been pretty anti-mormon, to feel the Spirit and to draw closer to our Heavenly Father. We actually had a pretty cool experience along with that baptism. I don't know if you remember me telling you about the fast that Elder Butler and I had to try and line somebody up for baptism on the 13th in our ward.  Well as that day went on we changed our prayers to be that somebody would be able to be baptized on that day and then about a week later we got a call from Elder Blue, Butler's last companion, telling us about the Hardin's baptism. It was so cool to realize that we had been prompted to pray and fast in a more broad scope and that in some way our faith helped to allow those siblings to be baptized that day, which was amazing for Elder Butler to have that experience on his last Saturday on the mission.

I love being a missionary, even in a harder area like this. I get to learn so much and to become so much more converted to the gospel myself. I thought I knew how much Heavenly Father loved me before I came out but I have come to realize it so much more now. I now truly know that Jesus Christ is our Savior and that without His Atonement, true happiness would be impossible. I hope that y'all can take time to think about how much the Atonement has blessed your life and to then share that happiness with others.
Love
Elder Cheever
 
 

Monday, August 8, 2016

Baptizing Cara

This week was pretty average again. We have been doing a lot of contacting and tracting in an effort to find more people to teach as well as trying to visit everybody on the ward directory so that Elder Hohmann and I can get to know them better so that we can increase our efforts in helping the less-active members return to church and so that we can help the active members in their missionary efforts. Its been going pretty well and we are starting to feel the benefits of our efforts and to realize that pretty soon something good is going to happen. 

I'm going to highlight the cooler things that happened this week because they stand out a lot more in my memory as compared to everything else. 
On Tuesday we met with our one investigator, Raul, and we were able to have a good lesson with him. When we found out that we would be training Elder Hohmann, Elder Butler and I got Raul to agree to let us start all the lessons over again so that Elder Hohmann can have the chance to teach them and so that we can review everything with Raul to see if we can deepen his understanding since he hasn't really been progressing. When we met we taught him the Restoration and it went pretty well and as we were wrapping up and talking about praying and receiving answers as he keeps commitments he opened up about how he is struggling right now because he can't find a job and how hard it is and how it is really testing his faith and as he talked about this I felt a prompting that I should attempt to set a baptismal date with him again, something we haven't tried to do for a while because his interest and efforts were low. As I began to extend the invitation I realized I needed to be pretty bold with it and the thought came to my mind to tell him that if he commits to that and if he does all that he needs to progress towards gaining a testimony of the restored gospel and towards baptism that the Lord will begin to bless him and he will see his needs and wants be met, including getting a job. As I spoke I could feel the power of the Spirit and I knew it wasn't me making these promises to him, but that as a representative of Jesus Christ I was just speaking on His behalf to Raul. He agreed to a date of October 8th, which is kind of far, but it gives him the time and chances to work for it. I just hope that he took our counsel seriously and that he lets the Spirit work in his life because I know that by keeping the commandments we truly are blessed temporally and spiritually. 

Another highlight of this week was receiving a text from that little girl Ashley's mother about her birthday party. Even though we weren't able attend it was still a huge miracle that she even remembered and texted us to remind us and now that we have her number and a friendship with her it opens up a huge opportunity to meet with them in our area and help them come to know more about the Restoration and to accept it. 

Probably the coolest thing that happened this week was being able to baptize Sister Loveridge and Sabolsky's investigator, Cara. This was the first time I've had the opportunity to physically baptize somebody and I was very grateful to have the chance, although I was a little nervous. Its kind of scary to be given such an important task. Being able to perform the ordinance was amazing and it reminded me of how I felt entering the baptismal font when I was 8 and also of how it felt watching people I have taught out here get baptized. The Spirit is always so strong at those events and I can always tell that Heavenly Father is truly proud of those who make the choice to be baptized. 

On Sunday we had an entire ward fast for missionary work. It was so great to know that we were all united in that effort and putting our faith towards gaining help in bringing the joy of the gospel to those in our city of Laguna Hills. Bishop Flora bore his testimony at the very end of sacrament meeting and talked about some of his recent missionary experiences and then he mentioned that this fast isn't so that us missionaries can be busy but its so that the members of the ward can have the courage and guidance they need to be able to share their testimonies with their neighbors and friends so that they can share the happiness that they have felt with those around them so that others can partake of it as well. Hopefully y'all can remember to pray daily for opportunities to share the gospel with those around you and to help them partake of our Father in Heaven's love and the blessings that He offers us. 

Its been crazy being with Elder Butler as he approaches going home. He works super hard and is a ton of fun to be around and it will be sad to see him go home and it will definitely be strange to no longer have him. Its led me to think a lot more about how little time I really have left. Even though 10ish months is quite a while, it goes by way too fast. The last 8 weeks have been a blur and May, June, and July have gone by even faster. My hope is that I can maintain the fire that we have built through the rest of my time in the field and then use those things I learn to be who the Lord needs me to be at home. But until that time comes I'm going to go as hard as I can, because as Elder Butler says when people ask if he's trunky yet, "My bags aren't packed!"
I love it here and I love this gospel with all my heart and I know that its through faith in Jesus Christ and by obedience to God's commandments, no matter how much or how little we may understand them, that we can truly be happy. These people are so good and I love being with them.
Love
Elder Cheever

Monday, August 1, 2016

Training Elder Hohmann

We had a pretty good week over here in Laguna Hills. Tuesday brought the most change seeing as that was the day that we picked up our greenie from the mission office. His name is Elder Hohmann, he is from Tooele, Utah, he graduated high school in June and he plans to go to UVU as a culinary major after his mission. Its been interesting getting used to a third companion again and its been fun showing him the ropes and helping him adjust to missionary life. Its pretty entertaining to see how tired he gets by the end of the day and to remember when I was absolutely exhausted to the point where I couldn't stay awake in the car. I'm still always tired but somehow my body has to realize that it still needs to function even when it doesnt want to and I can stay awake through most everything. It will be fun to work with Elder Hohmann while we are companions and then to watch him keep learning and growing as a missionary over the first year of his mission.
At the same time that transfer meeting was exciting while picking up our "son" it was also sad because I had to say goodbye to my trainer since he finished his mission this week. I'm so glad to have been able to learn from Elder Nielsen and to have started my mission out with somebody who is as great of an example as he is. One of the best things about missions is definitely the lifelong friendships that you develop.

We spent a lot of time this week contacting and tracting to find new people to teach and had some fun and interesting experiences while doing that. We had one man yell at us for interrupting his viewing the democratic national convention, another guy tried to tell us we weren't allowed to knock on his door without solicitors licenses so I promptly pulled out my ministerial certificate and upon seeing it he quickly began apologizing and let us know how much he appreciated what we do for God.The coolest person we talked to though was this mom and her little daughter Ashley. When we first talked to the mom she let us know that she goes to Saddleback Church, a huge born-again Christian church that teaches anti-mormon stuff, but when we told her more about the Book of Mormon she was a little more nice and interested. We told her we would love to share more with her and she told us we could but wouldn't give us her address, which is pretty typical, but before we left she told Ashley to sing for us. Ashley turn four this month but she sang "You Raise Me Up" perfectly and it was probably one of the cutest things I have ever seen in my life and then when we were walking away Ashley waved goodbye and said "see you later." We laughed about and then didn't think much of it but then a couple days later we were in the same area and ran into Ashley and her mom again and had the chance to talk with them more and Ashley's mom told us that Ashley kept asking her when "the boys in the white shirts" were going to come over. We talked more with her and told her we would love to visit them and then Ashley invited us to her birthday party and we told her mom that we would give her one of the Book of Mormon Stories  books (the one with the pictures) so that they could read it together. Hopefully something comes from this and the innocence of a young child can bless that family forever. 

We are continuing to work hard and do all that we need to despite the lack of results that we have been seeing lately. We are just going to carry on and know that we are doing our best and that Heavenly Father will bless when He knows we need it. On fast Sunday the ward is fasting for missionary work in the area and I have faith that we will see some pretty amazing miracles from that. Thank you all for your prayers and love in our behalf, they don't go unheard by God or unnoticed by us! Find somebody this week that you can share the gospel with, its easy, all you have to do is ask them a friend what they know about Mormons, or the Book of Mormon or anything like that and you can start a conversation and maybe even change their life!
Love
Elder Cheever
 
 
 

Monday, July 25, 2016

Contacting, Shattered Dreams, and Expectancy

Hopefully this one doesn't get too confusing, it gets a little twisty towards the end of the big chunk, kind of like the book of Mosiah. If you can't figure it I apologize.
This week was crazy, but in a good way. Last week I let you know about the change of heart that Elder Butler and I have been experiencing, this week is the result of that change.  We set our contacting goal really high, 140 for the whole week (that's double what the mission requests of us each week) and then we destroyed it. Each day we made sure that we found the time to get out and talk to as many people as possible and we ended up with 216 contacts. It was so amazing to just feel driven by a desire to spread the gospel and help others feel the happiness that we have felt.  From all this work we have a lot more potential investigators than we did previously and now our goal is to not only keep up the fire that we have lit within ourselves but also be able to begin actually teaching a lot of the people we have met. Among all this energy and drive we did get a little down though. A couple weeks ago when we went on exchanges with Elder Davis and Elder Mann, Elder Butler and Elder Davis set a window of Heaven and tracted into a lady who was interested in learning more. At the beginning of the week we went by to try and teach her and her daughter opened the door and when we talked to her and asked if she would be willing to learn more she told us she was so we were excited to have the potential of teaching the couple of members of this family. We have a goal of having a baptism on Elder Butler's last weekend in the mission and we realized that if everything worked out well with them they could both be baptized that day. So we fasted on Friday to be able to visit them on Saturday and that they would be more open to the message of the Restoration and be able to accept a baptismal date. Friday ended being the hottest day this week and going out working was pretty exhausting but we knew that we were doing it for a good reason and we were excited to see the results of our faith and efforts on Saturday. Unfortunately on Saturday we ended up not being quite as diligent as we needed to be and we got to their house a little later than we had felt we needed to be there and as we were preparing to go knock on the door we saw the daughter get into her car and drive away. We checked back a couple of times throughout the day but her car was never back there. After we saw her leave we went over to the home of some members in the ward to check up on the progress of somebody we had taught in their home and while we were talking with them Elder Butler realized that they had daughters about the same age as Lieran, the girl we hope to teach, and we asked them if they knew her. They told us that they did and that she was a good friend of their older daughter who is about to get married so when we told them that we were hoping to teach her they got really excited and offered to help in anyway possible. It was so cool that we had planned to visit them the night before on a whim in hopes of finding out more about a different investigator but we ended up getting the help we had fasted about. We ended up asking them to invite Lieran to church the following day hoping that it would work out because we knew that for her and her mother to be baptized on the 13th they needed to go to church that Sunday and the next two Sundays. She ended up being busy and not being able to go which was a huge bummer. For the first time in my life I realized the sadness that can come from not heeding a prompting from the Spirit, especially when we ask for it. The whole rest of the night I was pretty down because I knew that if we had tried a little harder we may have been able to see a different result. From that point until we had to go to church on Sunday we began working super hard to be able to find somebody to get to church, a very stressful task. Unfortunately nobody showed up at Sacrament meeting and for the first time in a long time I was truly sad. We worked so hard and did all that we could all week to be as obedient as possible and work as hard as we could to find people to teach and we really felt good about it and like something would come from it and to see nothing when we had so much faith was hard. But I also know that faith in God also requires faith in His timing, as hard as that can be sometimes. We will continue to do all that we need to to earn the trust of our Heavenly Father and to be ready for the miracles that He has in store for us and to hope that in some way something will work out that will allow us to have a baptism on the 13th of August

In a little bit more inspiring and exciting of news, Elder Butler and I will be fathers tomorrow (aka we have been called to train a new missionary!) We are excited for this opportunity to serve in a different capacity and to help somebody start off their mission in what is hopefully a good way. We got told his name but they quite often change the assignments at the last second based on whatever new inspiration comes their way so we will find out tomorrow who he is. Hopefully we can be exactly who he needs and hopefully we don't screw him up too badly. 

I have learned so much in the past week about the importance of obedience. I have felt a greater portion of the Spirit more constantly and have truly felt His companionship as we worked. My understanding of that principle has deepened and my testimony has grown significantly because of it. I'm so grateful for the opportunity to be a full time servant of my Father in Heaven and of Jesus Christ and I know that they happy and joyous times give me a glimpse of what life with Them can be and I know that the hard and sad times help me understand the importance of doing all that I need to to be worthy of the blessings that They have promised me. This mission and this time are truly the greatest things that have ever happened to me and I know that for the rest of my life I will always be grateful for the experiences I have had and those that I will have. 
Pray for missionary opportunities and then put for the faith and effort requisite to have those opportunities. Missionaries may be the ones set apart for the work but y'all are truly the ones who can make the biggest difference!
Love
Elder Cheever

Monday, July 18, 2016

A Mighty Change of Heart and Exact Obedience Brings Miracles!

This week was so much better than last week and that's the reason for the title being what it is and there are a few main things that I will address as to why. First a realization taken from an inspired training from a good friend, a change of heart inspired by President and Sister Clark's counsel, and some miracles that have come from following the knowledge gained.  

On Tuesday we had our district meeting and a part of it ended up making it one of my favorite ones over the past year. There is a lot to it so I'm actually going to type in word for word from my journal entry for that day, sorry about how long this may be. This comes from the training that Elder Boggess gave in relation to the Christlike attribute that he has been working on this transfer, obedience (which is also the one I have been focusing on.) Okay here goes the quote from my journal, "One of the things that he (Elder Boggess) talked about was super helpful to me. He talked about Zion's Camp and how lots of people though of it as a failure but that it was really a proving grounds for much of the leadership in the early church. There was a super good quote that really stuck out to me, in the book "Our Heritage" that says 'The journey had revealed who was on the Lord's side and who was worthy to serve in positions of leadership. The Prophet later explained the outcome of the march: 'God did not want you to fight. He could not organize His kingdom with twelve men to open the gospel door to the nations of the earth, and with seventy men under their direction to follow in their tracks, unless He took them from a body of men who had offered their lives, and who had made as great a sacrifice as did Abraham... we gained an experience that we never could have gained in any other way' When Elder Boggess talked about not being sent to fight I felt the same kind of thing about me here, that I wasn't sent here to baptize like crazy but that I needed to come here to be tested and to prove myself to God. The men in Zion's Camp proved their leadership capabilities and sacrificed greatly to be obedient to the Prophet and to God. I don't think that it is a coincidence that I got put into this harder area, with the potential of being here for a long time, and then given a leadership position at this time when even President Orgill told me I was ready a while ago, and then that this is the time at which I have felt the greatest desire to be obedient to mission rules. I think that more me the Laguna Hills 3rd ward and area is my Zion's Camp and my refiners fire."  

This realization and other are part of what have contributed to my increase in obedience. I know that the Lord has a great plan for me and my mission and that if the early apostles had to go through something hard to prove their potential to God than I probably have to too.  The rest of Tuesday, which was also my birthday ended going really well. We were able to get out and talk to lots of people and we had a great lesson with our investigator Raul about the Plan of Salvation taught through 2 Nephi 2. This birthday was much better than the one I had on the mission last year, probably something about actually knowing people here and having somewhat of a clue of what I'm doing here and where I am;)
 
On Thursday we had our interviews with President and Sister Clark. They are super awesome, super funny, and super loving.  A big focus of their's right now is exact obedience and President shared with me a quote that his family used a lot, "All in, or in the way." Using this and other counsel on exact obedience, Elder Butler and I have committed to being exactly obedient in our conduct and efforts. We aren't perfect yet but we are striving to be as obedient as the Lord needs us to be so that we can see the miracles that this area so desperately needs. I have already noticed a change from these efforts, I can feel the Spirit more throughout the day and we have seen a lot more happen here. We have picked up more potential investigators in one week than in the past 11 that I have been here and we have been more excited for the work. We have had a change of heart, our eyes are clear, our hearts are full, and our focus has narrowed and if we rely on the Lord, we can't lose. This week we had 113 contacts (our goal each week is 70 and we have only hit that once this transfer) and a couple of really cool experiences from those efforts. 

On Friday I had the amazing privilege to go to the temple with my former companion, Elder Davies, to attend the wedding of our good friend Nicole, from the YSA ward that we served in. It was an amazing opportunity to be able to see this glorious ordinance performed for somebody that I know. It is so amazing that the priesthood authority to perform this eternal ordinance has been restored to the earth and that because of it we can have the knowledge and hope that comes from knowing that our families are forever. I was also super grateful to even have been invited to attend, as I looked around at the others there in the sealing room and I realized they were either family or people she had been friends with long enough for them to be considered family. So Nicole when you read this, thanks for letting Davies and I be there for this special moment in  your life.

On Saturday night we went to visit a less active member of our ward and walked and contacted as we went. Unfortunately he wasn't home so we walked around the park by his house for a little while trying to decide what to do. I felt like we should just stay over there even though there wasn't really anybody out and then our investigator Raul texted us attempting to let us know what he learned from reading the chapters we left with him but because our phones aren't the most high-tech it wasn't going through. We realized we were right in his neighborhood so we asked if we could come by and he said sure so we walked over to his home and ended having an amazing lesson with him. We pointed out a few examples of prophecies set forth in the Bible that come about through the Book of Mormon and scriptures that connect them.  To close it out Elder Butler shared the verses in 3 Nephi about when Christ descends from Heaven and appears to the Nephites so that we could end on a super spiritual note. As I gave the closing prayer I felt so much love for Raul and I felt the words that I said being guided by the Spirit as I asked that he would have the time and desire to study the Book of Mormon more so that he can receive an answer to his prayers. It was probably one of the times I  have felt the Spirit the strongest during a prayer and I know it wasn't my efforts that led to that. As we left we invited him to come to church the next day and for the first time he expressed that he would be able to and that he would like to go, he has been being taught for about 8 months and never come to church, so we told him we would set up a ride for him. Unfortunately he didn't make it to church despite our prayers but late last night he sent us a text apologizing for not coming and saying that he really wanted to but that he had left his phone in his sisters car and because of that he missed our reminders. He did tell us that he will try his best to make it next week so that is going to be our big goal. 

Last night had some other cool experiences. We were contacting in a park in our area after feeling like we needed to go there instead of to a members home and it ended up being pretty great. We stopped at the porta-potty in the park and while Elder Butler was in there I saw a couple walking towards us so I knew I needed to contact them alone. As soon as I talked to them they very boldly let me know that they were born-again christians and that they "knew all about mormonism." I knew immediately that the conversation wasn't going to be very pleasant but I prepared myself to not bash with them. They began asking the usual questions that people ask when they want to bash but for some reason I was able to answer each one in some way confounded them. The biggest turning point in the conversation was when they asked me who I believe Jesus Christ to be. I bore testimony that He is our Savior and or Redeemer and that it is only through Him that we can have a hope of Salvation. The lady began to angrily question my response twisting my words to seem as though I said He was only MY Savior, and MY Redeemer. I honestly can't remember all of what I said after that because I know it was led by the Spirit but it was along the lines of "Yes, He is my Savior and my Redeemer but He is everybody's Savior. He came and died for everybody in this world, for the people over on that playground, for the two of you, for me, and for my friend here in the bathroom" (yes Elder Butler was still in the porta-potty, and he did say hi from inside it when I mentioned him, it added some humor to the conversation) The power and the Spirit that could be felt as I said this was so strong, probably the strongest that I have ever felt when bearing testimony of Christ. The rest of the conversation went basically the same, them angrily asking dumb questions to which Elder Butler and I just bore testimony in an extremely powerful way, more powerful than we could have done without the guidance of the Spirit and in the end they realized they weren't going to get anywhere with us and that we truly loved what we did. It was actually the first time that I have left something like that feeling spiritually uplifted and ready to go bear testimony to people who are ready and humble.  I'm actually really grateful for the opportunity that talking to them gave me to feel the Spirit and strengthen my own testimony and to experience the promise given in the Doctrine and Covenants that "it shall be given you in the very hour what ye shall say." I know that I wouldn't have been able to bear this testimony with the power and authority that was there, that we wouldn't have been able to have the amazing lesson with Raul that we did, or have been able to talk to as many people as we did, and to begin seeing small miracles that we have without the change of heart that we have had and the increased obedience we are committing to. Obedience truly does bring blessings and exact obedience truly does bring miracles. 

I hope y'all have a great week and can find opportunities to do missionary work in ways that you can and that you can find ways to bear testimony of Jesus Christ and His love for all of us. 
Love
Elder Cheever




Monday, July 11, 2016

This week was one of the rougher ones

This week was one of the rougher ones I have had on my mission. It wasn't hard in some ways that I have had hard weeks, nobody argued with us, none of our investigators dropped us, and we didn't get in a car accident, except I did accidentally break our windshield but I don't have to pay for it so its not too bad.  We just kind of struggled to be as motivated as we needed to be. Nobody that we tried to contact and talk to wanted to learn anything new, none of the less active members that we usually visit were available, and our only investigator cancelled on us this week. It got me down a little bit and then when I went on an exchange with one of my co-district leaders and I got a little more stressed and down because I saw the things they had going for them and started comparing it to what we have in our area. But I did realize that even though its hard here that I have come to love this place a lot more than I ever thought I would, this was actually one of the areas in the mission that I had hoped to never get assigned to after going to one of the sacrament meetings, but slowly and surely it has grown on me as all my areas have. The whole day I just wanted to go back to my area and do things there so I was super excited when we exchanged back. I have a super good feeling about next week and I think something good is coming our way. My big hope is that right now we can somehow get somebody new and prepared to teach on my birthday, I don't think there would be any better present that I could receive from anybody than to get that from our Heavenly Father.
We got to go to the temple on Saturday and it was one of the best experiences I have had there in a long time. I really love going there and feeling the peace and calm that comes from being in the house of the Lord. Being able to sit in the Celestial room and pray and read in the scriptures and seek help and answers to my questions is one of my favorite experiences. There is just a special closeness to Heavenly Father that can be felt in there. 

This week during church the ward did something cool. Two of the moms of missionaries were given the assignment to do a "missionary moment" and give the ward an update of how their kids were doing. Sister Flora, the bishop's wife, talked about their son Max who is serving down in Hermosillo, Mexico. A lot of the things that she read were some of his emails about how much he has felt himself change over the 8 months he has been on his mission and it made me think about myself and the last year. Over the past few weeks I have been thinking a lot about who I am now and about how I act as a missionary. Hitting my year mark made me think back to when I first came into the mission and about how my trainer and one of my roommates, two of the missionaries that I spent the most time around, were at a year and how much I looked up to them and to their example as to how I should act. I can see different parts of how they did things in the way that I act but I can also see how I have slipped some in my example. I have started to wonder about how the new missionaries that I'm around look at me and it has motivated me to do better and be better so that they can learn from me in a positive way instead of learning what not to do, especially since there are a lot of elders coming into the mission and the chance that I will train one of them is really high. I remember at the transfer meeting when I joined the mission and I was walking out with my trainer one of the sister missionaries that he was friends with came over to us and told me that my trainer was one of the most obedient missionaries in the mission and that really stuck with me. I know that thats not what people will say about me, but I hope that people can see how much I care about those around me and how much I love being a part of this work. I have learned so much more about who I need to be and I have come to love the gospel so much more. I truly know that our Savior, Jesus Christ lives and that through His Atonement we can be forgiven of the mistakes we make and that we can gain strength when we need it most. I know so much more of the love that Heavenly Father has for all of us and I can feel that love for those I serve and those I serve with. I know that we have been given the Plan of Salvation as a guide for us to be able to return to live with our Heavenly Father again and I have seen the hope and light that this plan can bring when life gets dark and there seems to be no escape. I have loved this first year of my mission and I can't wait to change and grow even more in the next year.
Love
Elder Cheever